Solve the problem already,
after rpmbuild --rebuild nvidia_peer_memory-1.0-0.src.rpm,
the output of the rpm is sit at /root/rpmbuild/RPMS/x86_64/nvidia_peer_memory-1.0-0.x86_64.rpm,
so next step i install using that RPM, not the nvidia_peer_memory-1.0-0.src.rpm. my mistake...( the README document does not show clear step for kind of people who new in rpm installation,.)
thanks.